One of the hardest things is being in a marriage that doesn’t fulfill you.
You may not know how to get through this stage in your marriage, to feel happy and connected with your spouse.
You are not alone.
So many couples drift apart and life gets so focused on the day to day & the kids, and the marriage drifts to the background.
Does this Sound familiar?
You feel like roommates, not a married couple
Your marriage looks so different from what you thought it would be when you said “I do”
You don’t know how or when to approach your spouse
When conversations do start they easily erupt or are surface level
As a therapist and a marriage coach, It’s my mission to support couples to reconnect and build a relationship that fits who they are now and how they have grown after having children.
I have helped many couples:
Grow from not knowing how to handle shared household and parenting responsibilities, to working as a team, experiencing satisfaction in their roles and and partnership,
Have fun together
Make time to enjoy each other with little things like:
going for walks together,
watching movies together,
cooking favorite recipes together,
bringing a cup of coffee to each other in bed,
handling parenting struggles together,
sharing struggles from work with each other,
supporting each other emotionally.
and overall,
love being around each other.
And I want to help you do this too.
These are the top reasons couples like you find themselves disconnected:
Demands of modern parenting and life
Can take everything from you and leave nothing for your relationship. If space is not intentionally made for your marriage outside of parenting, working and self care, it will slowly fade away.
Not communicating needs
When your and your partner’s needs are consistently not being met, you forget that you each hold the power to be a safe haven for one another by taking simple actions like offering a hug or a cup of water. By slowly starting to recognize, communicate and meet each other's needs, the relationship can be restored.
Not knowing how to connect
Connection isn’t always fancy dinners and vacations. Connecting is making an intentional decision to take interest in your spouse, knowing that they will learn how to do the same for you. Many couples have lost touch with their ability to connect as friends and partners.
So how can you begin to dust off and rebuild your relationship?
Well, marriage is work - but when the work is paired with expert support then you’re on your way to morning coffee chats and peace in coparenting.
My course, Childproof Your Marriage is your pathway there
A self paced course with bite sized videos that fit into your life as busy parents.
Learn to…
Coparent: understand how parenting has changed your marriage and set expectations about shared goals.
Connect: Grow as a team and partnership, not just individuals
Communicate: Prevent conflict with better communication skills
I’ll provide you with the tools and resources you need to create the marriage you long for. Enjoy lifetime access so you can come back as you practice your new skills over time.
As a licensed therapist and a marriage coach, I don't believe every couple needs therapy.
You’re probably wondering…
What’s the difference between relationship counseling and relationship coaching?
Well, I’m so happy you asked.
Counseling for a relationship is best when it involves an underlying mental health issue or some kind of problem that is rooted in struggles like infidelity or trauma.
Relationship coaching is wonderful for people who need support, guidance and specific strategies and skills to improve different aspects of the marriage.
A great thing about coaching is that you can work with me no matter where are you in the world, not just in my home state of Texas.
Couples who take my online course learn to communicate, make time for each other, navigate the stress of parenting and life as a team, improve their conflict resolution, improve the quality of time they spend together, learn to encourage, support, value and validate each other, build systems and strategies to help them be a team and a partnership, set and manage expectations about roles and responsibilities, rebuild a friendship within their marriage and much more.
If this description resonates with you then you are in the right place. I am here to help you reinforce and reprioritize your marriage so that you can find balance in taking care of your kids and other responsibilities while having a happy and fulfilled marriage and partnership.
In addition to the course, couples have the option to add-on coaching calls with me to reinforce what they have learned in the program itself.
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Is this your marriage?
-You don’t spend time together
-You snap at each other
-You don’t prioritize each other
-You don’t validate/praise/complement each other
-You are snappy/rude to each other
-You are unhappy
-You wish your spouse treated you differently
-You feel that the household responsibilities are not evenly spread
-You feel alone and not in a partnership
-You don’t feel understood by your spouse
Imagine this instead!
-You have a friendship with your spouse
-You have fun, laugh, joke with your spouse
-You feel that you have a strong partnership in your household roles/ responsibilities
-You trust that your spouse will be there to support and nurture you
-You trust that your spouse will be a team player
-You trust that your spouse values your needs and will work to meet them
-You trust that your spouse will parent similarly to you
-You don’t feel alone or isolated in your relationship and in parenting
-You feel confidence in your ability to talk to your spouse about good and bad
-You have confidence that frustrations and conflict with your spouse can be resolved and not swept under the rug/ignored or become volatile.
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So what exactly is the course?
Child Proof Your Marriage Online Course
It’s a 12 week online only premier course of it’s kind, including:
Pinpoint exactly what the problems in your marriage are (parenting and otherwise) that are causing you and your spouse to feel disconnected, unhappy, and lacking in partnership.
Learn how to set and manage shared roles and responsibilities at home to work as a partnership and to feel more supported by your spouse.
Learn important communication skills to improve how you discuss roles, responsibilities, stress, emotional needs, physical needs, parenting and more.
Build a partnership with your spouse to truly work as a team in all aspects of your shared life. Learn how to meet each other’s overall needs so that both of you can feel more fulfilled and to eliminate resentment or feeling that you are giving more than you are receiving in the relationship.
Address and improve aspects of your life like finances, intimacy, extended family, social life and areas that cause friction or imbalance in the relationship.
Create mutual future hopes and goals for the relationship and the family and identify strategies to maintain and continue to build on the tools you have learned in this program.
Fully online course so no matter where you are in the world, you can take it.
If you and your spouse are ready to reprioritize your marriage to build and improve communication, quality time, conflict resolution, clarity about your household and parenting roles, partnership, friendship and so much more, then my program will help you get there!